Spider-Man wrote:Christmas
Hell no.
Spider-Man wrote:weddings
Last wedding I went to was 9 years ago.
Spider-Man wrote:funerals
Last funeral I went to was 12 years ago, and since when are funerals "fun"?
Spider-Man wrote:parties
Not a partier. And when everyone else is in jeans & t-shirts, as they are at most parties, showing up in a suit & tie looks ridiculous.
Spider-Man wrote:business meetings
Hell no, and how is that fun? I'd imagine funerals would be more fun.
Spider-Man wrote:high school reunions
Home schooled. Will never have a high school reunion.
Spider-Man wrote:going to the office every day.....
Hell no, and again, how is that fun?
Christmas, Easter, Thanksgiving: those are "stay at home holidays". 4th of July, too, but you're not indoors.
New Year's Eve should be "going out" fun.
I didn't even know the clock turned over last year. I was lying in bed, watching Alien 3. Wow, so much fun.
If you don't want to get dressed up and go dancing with friends, that's fine. No one has to.
I'd like to.
And, no, "no one's stopping me". Unless all my friends decide they have better things to do. Then, yeah, everyone's stopping me. That's exactly what's happening.
PoP!toberfest was some of the most fun I've ever had. But not everyone can, afford to, or want to go to Florida for a Halloween party. Why would my friend Sam & his wife Kim want to go that far to spend time with people they either hardly know, or don't at all? This helps spread the PoP! love around the country more. Spread to people who no matter how much I or Knize or Kerouac nag them, they won't visit the site, much less sign up for the boards.
My main reason for loving the idea of this so much (it wasn't
my idea to do a PoP! New Year's in Chicago), is it helps get the site more recognition. One step closer to PoP! Con. It has to start somewhere. It has to grow. It can't just be us, meeting once a year, in the same place.
It also was going to help me feel like I contributed to the site that my friends created.
I didn't just meet The Forefathers. I've known them awhile before they even got the idea for this place.
And, while I don't "need more to do", nor do I feel "excluded", I
do feel like "just a fan", instead of "part of it".
That's another reason why I wanted to do this so badly.
Going to someone's house where people are excluded because it's either too small, or people I know don't know the hosts well enough, or people "you" know don't know
me well enough is just stupid. Going somewhere that's hosted by someone else, where a thousand people - that I would most likely hate - couldn't give a flying shit about us "running shit" doesn't sound much fun either. If I was by myself, looking for something to do, yes, Jase, that
does sound awesome.
But that's not the awesome I was looking for, nor would it benefit any/everybody else.
Tripper just asked me why do I "give a fuck what anyone else wants"?
She's right.
I shouldn't.
So I won't.