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riv1 wrote:Best way to decide which side of the bed each person gets?
The Ignored One wrote:riv1 wrote:Best way to decide which side of the bed each person gets?
That situation is really actually very complicated. Does your partner have sleeping problems, or a medical condition? If so they get priority definitely.
Otherwise it's a discussion. To get the side you want, you may have to give something else up. Maybe a back rub, blanket or pillow preference. Just like a lot of other things in marriage it's compromise, compromise, compromise.
Silent K wrote:The Ignored One wrote:riv1 wrote:Best way to decide which side of the bed each person gets?
That situation is really actually very complicated. Does your partner have sleeping problems, or a medical condition? If so they get priority definitely.
Otherwise it's a discussion. To get the side you want, you may have to give something else up. Maybe a back rub, blanket or pillow preference. Just like a lot of other things in marriage it's compromise, compromise, compromise.
I look at it this way: You choose, honey. If you pick this side, you'll be the farthest from the bathroom, but if you pick the other side, you're closest to the door and any potential attackers.
The Ignored One wrote:
Believe it or not, the safety issue has always been trumped by comfort in my long term relationships. Depends on placement of the bed also.
Seems to be the consensus here: http://www.yelp.com/topic/los-angeles-guys-question-regarding-which-side-of-the-bed-you-sleep-onSilent K wrote:
I look at it this way: You choose, honey. If you pick this side, you'll be the farthest from the bathroom, but if you pick the other side, you're closest to the door and any potential attackers.
Good oral sex.JessJupiter wrote:What's the key to a happy long relationship!?
JessJupiter wrote:What's the key to a happy long relationship!?
Well shit. We're gonna love each other forever then! :PJoshua wrote:
Good oral sex.
The Ignored One wrote:JessJupiter wrote:What's the key to a happy long relationship!?
Compromise. You have to be willing to bend on certain things.
Honesty. If you cant be honest with the person, you're already set up for failure.
Interests really don't have to be very similar, but there has to be some kind of chemistry. My wife hates comics, horror movies, and cartoons. This is all the crap I like, and we've been together for 9 years in March.
CherriesJubilee wrote:
Here's one for you though: who gets thermostat control at night? He likes it hot, I want it cold enough to see penguins in the corner. My reasoning is that if he's cold, he can put a shirt or pants on to get warmer....but there's only so much I can take off to get cooler. Thoughts?
The Ignored One wrote:Usually the person that wants the Thermostat colder wins. It's all about layers. You can put an infinite amount of stuff on, but there is only so much you can take off.
There's compromise in marriage?!?The Ignored One wrote:riv1 wrote:Best way to decide which side of the bed each person gets?
That situation is really actually very complicated. Does your partner have sleeping problems, or a medical condition? If so they get priority definitely.
Otherwise it's a discussion. To get the side you want, you may have to give something else up. Maybe a back rub, blanket or pillow preference. Just like a lot of other things in marriage it's compromise, compromise, compromise.
Joshua wrote:I always say make it cooler because you can always throw on another blanket.
Or at least the opportunity to see a hilariously disgusted look on her face when you blast one in bed and she has to decide between facing arctic chills for a gasp of fresh air or staying warm and toasty but having to suffer through your toxic ass fumes.Tom wrote:Joshua wrote:I always say make it cooler because you can always throw on another blanket.
And spooning under the blankets will usually lead to sex.
Joshua wrote:Or at least the opportunity to see a hilariously disgusted look on her face when you blast one in bed and she has to decide between facing arctic chills for a gasp of fresh air or staying warm and toasty but having to suffer through your toxic ass fumes.Tom wrote:Joshua wrote:I always say make it cooler because you can always throw on another blanket.
And spooning under the blankets will usually lead to sex.
The Ignored One wrote:JessJupiter wrote:What's the key to a happy long relationship!?
Compromise. You have to be willing to bend on certain things.
Honesty. If you cant be honest with the person, you're already set up for failure.
Interests really don't have to be very similar, but there has to be some kind of chemistry. My wife hates comics, horror movies, and cartoons. This is all the crap I like, and we've been together for 9 years in March.
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