Man, fuck spoilers. I know I'm weird to say this, but I don't mind spoilers because then it gives me something to look forward to in the show/movie/book. It really doesn't lessen my enjoyment of it.
For example, before going to see
Inception I read the whole synopsis online. Why would I spoil the movie like that for myself? Because I knew that the story was going to be convoluted and I didn't want to get lost and frustrated during the movie. And because of that, I enjoyed the movie a hell of a lot more than I would have. Thanks to my short attention span, I would've been lost in the first 10 minutes.
Generally, if I'm giving a spoiler warning, it's because A) I'm making a joke about it, or B) I don't want to hear people complaining that I spoiled something for them. And if I'm saying that something got spoiled for me, I'm joking.
Gojiratoho wrote:If it's something that had a big twist and I'm talking to someone about it, I'll generally ask about it first. (Have you seen this? You haven't? well, I don't want to talk about it. Go see it, and get back to me)
If someone asks me not to continue talking about something they haven't seen, I'll respect the request (I'm not going to go out of my way to spoil something), but if they happen on my Facebook posts or it's a message board discussion, I think it's "viewer beware" after the times I noted.
This 100%. I won't intentionally spoil something for someone who tells me not to, but I'm not going to censor myself from talking about something awesome
unless you tell me not to. The ball is in
your court to say, "Hey, I haven't seen/read that, let's talk about something else."