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Some things aren't about you.
Sometimes, you need to realize there's nothing you can do to change a situation.
Sometimes, when you really care about someone, you need to recognize that all you're doing is hurting them, and you need to stop.
Sometimes, it's too damn late.
Sometimes, some things, are bigger than you, and you need to recognize that.
Cause let me tell you something, trying to play the martyr, or playing passive-aggresive bullshit games, or hounding people non-stop... it's not helping.
The person who was smart enough to get out of harm's way in the first place is probably going to be smart enough not to fall for the bullshit, not to get suckered in.
It's nothing against you personally, either. Maybe you're better. Mabye you HAVE changed. But after hearing that a thousand times, it gets pretty damned hard to believe. Not to mention, the last time really WAS the last. When it's happened enough, the feelings that made it tolerable the first couple hundred times... they go away. And now that they're gone, and the trust is gone... there's really nothing left, now, is there.
This is something I needed to get off my chest about the situation in which I currently find myself. But if you're reading this, and you're doing this to someone who isn't me, maybe YOU should stop, too.
Sometimes, you need to realize there's nothing you can do to change a situation.
Sometimes, when you really care about someone, you need to recognize that all you're doing is hurting them, and you need to stop.
Sometimes, it's too damn late.
Sometimes, some things, are bigger than you, and you need to recognize that.
Cause let me tell you something, trying to play the martyr, or playing passive-aggresive bullshit games, or hounding people non-stop... it's not helping.
The person who was smart enough to get out of harm's way in the first place is probably going to be smart enough not to fall for the bullshit, not to get suckered in.
It's nothing against you personally, either. Maybe you're better. Mabye you HAVE changed. But after hearing that a thousand times, it gets pretty damned hard to believe. Not to mention, the last time really WAS the last. When it's happened enough, the feelings that made it tolerable the first couple hundred times... they go away. And now that they're gone, and the trust is gone... there's really nothing left, now, is there.
This is something I needed to get off my chest about the situation in which I currently find myself. But if you're reading this, and you're doing this to someone who isn't me, maybe YOU should stop, too.
