Ask a Straight Guy

Esbat wrote:

Mnemosis wrote:

Joshua wrote:I have a question for straight guys: what's the appeal to threesomes and orgies? I've never found that enticing.

Add me to the list of nay-sayers. If ANYTHING... I'd want to double up with another guy on a girl, but I don't know if I could handle being naked with another guy having sex with the same girl. Does that make sense? If I was single and into casual sex (neither of which applies), I could appreciate the allure of being with a girl who wanted it so bad, she needed more than one at a time. I couldn't make a relationship out of it, I'd be too insecure. But for a one night stand kind of thing, I think it'd be hot. I'd just haveta... I don't know... have blinders on that prevented me from seeing any part of the dude aside from knowing he was there...

Dude, I'm afraid of his junk getting anywhere near mine. I mean, your BALLS could touch. *shudders* Or imagine him cumming and it GETS on your. I feel dirty enough getting myself messy with Esbat's Own salad dressing. But then again I get paranoid when I eat food and I think a crumb or smudge of mustard or grease is still on my chin/face.

Mnemosis wrote:
It's called fingercuffs. If my balls touch another dude's balls with an entire torso between us, we're doing something wrong.

Joshua wrote:
The problem with the fingercuffs scenario is you might see the dude's face. During sex I don't want to see another guy's face, let alone another guy's o-face,

Thundermatts wrote:You got rid of mine!

Joshua wrote:The problem with the fingercuffs scenario is you might see the dude's face. During sex I don't want to see another guy's face, let alone another guy's o-face,

Silent K wrote:

Thundermatts wrote:You got rid of mine!

https://panelsonpages2009.forumotion.com/the-abyss-f2/ask-a-straight-guy-t966-20.htm#35683

Tripper McGee wrote:From the little I read, I would like to say the ladder theory is not true. I have said "I feel like I can talk to you about anything" to guys I would sleep with.

BlueMaxx wrote:

Tripper McGee wrote:From the little I read, I would like to say the ladder theory is not true. I have said "I feel like I can talk to you about anything" to guys I would sleep with.

I mean, ^that seems like a good connection statement between people.

Silent K wrote:Twat Swatters.

Tripper McGee wrote:

Silent K wrote:Twat Swatters.

What is that?

BlueMaxx wrote:^ What Josh said, or......you could try your damnedest to indulge in conversation with her friends. Interact with the more when you have the chance.

They could be the friends that are protective of each other. They look at you as if trying to figure out your intentions. "Do you really like her or just trying to get into her panties?" - Thoughts like that. Also, you're possibly taking away their hangout time with her.

Heck, you know friends' opinions are shared in the "circle". Maybe they don't feel like you like them, or one of them didn't, so they all give the stink eye in defense. Maybe they don't feel fully comfortable talking about things that they'd normally talk about in that setting and it is frustrating. Since girls talk, maybe you aren't treating your gf as good as you can? Not that your a jerk, but...in other ways? Hint, hint. You don't have anything to prove, so don't get defensive.

Anyways, there are a myriad of reasons. Hell, maybe Josh is right. Maybe they just frickin' suck poo.

BlueMaxx wrote:^ You have your work cut out for you. Think of them as family members. You have to show you're not a douche to daddy and mommy, especially dad, so treat her friends like that. Don't feel you have to prove anything, just show your a good guy, and you actually care for her. Sounds trite, and is easier said than done, but it's the best I can say. And, not to be a downer, sometimes that's just not enough. Some people are pure cynicism whom create a prediposition towards crapy people and stick with it when someone new comes along.