Heytherejeffro wrote:Did you find Will and Grace to be an accurate and honest portrayal of gay culture?
Not as I know it, no. You can look in my Ask A Gay Guy thread to see my actual thoughts on Will and Grace. However, despite my objections to much of W&G's approach, it was still a show that treated its characters with a certain amount of dignity. For every five episodes of over-the-top gay/alcoholic/neurotic shenanigans, there was one that really delved into what drove the characters.
I don't think that BBT falls into the same traps as W&G, mostly because I find character development to be an ongoing process on that show, instead of the 'here's an episode designed to tug at your heartstrings and make you love the characters' approach. Yes, the nerds make vicious fun of themselves, but as I said before, it's nothing compared to the way we talk to each other (just read through this message board. We've ragged on everything from Knize being fat to Chris not sealing the deal).
I don't think it's fair that the nerds are so socially damaged; not everyone who grew up with a staggering intellect was brutalized by their home life, but I also understand that this show isn't about ALL geeks -- it's about these four geeks, who have their own histories and damages. Is it a little cliche? Yeah. But that can open the door for all kinds of stories where the cliche is broken open...like the episode where Leonard is threatened by his academic hero (and man-crush), who is a motorcycle-riding hunk that immediately catches Penny's eye.
It's all subjective, like any humor. I just fail to see where it's this big offensive piece of garbage.